In other words, find the best ways to disconnect yourself from anyone or anything that plays on your physical and or spiritual emotions. When I say the word ‘play’ for this topic, I mean -to hurt, abuse, prey, break, lie, mock, to be laughed at, especially if any of this causes you to feel assaulted, confused, low or scared. 

What’s up SO FLY ❤️s… I hope you know that I always wish you the best.

This ‘bully’ topic is a serious one. And I am here for it.

First of all, I would like to say that bullies have almost always been bullied themselves.  If you have ever been bullied, I am sorry that this has happened. You would be surprised to know the strength you have to get out of a bully experience. 

A bully is controlling. This power that a bully has needs to be obliterated. The power a bully has is negative power– but it’s still power. It’s also a low-key weakness. The bully is hiding something and that’s the only real power they have, this ability to hide their own fears and issues. 

Here are a few scenarios on this topic that I would like to talk about—

One of the worst things about dealing with a bully is keeping it to yourself. 

Report it. And Please tell somebody special to you when something is wrong or even a little off with how you’re being treated. And WATCH WHAT HAPPENS NEXT because a bully can’t handle if you have a friend that’s ready to show up for you. Always True.

Don’t brush a bully moment off. That may allow you to accept it again. And then it becomes bigger the next time. Address it the first time.

Be clear with this bully moment that it shouldn’t happen again. And if it does, be clearer that you are willing to deal with it. And again, do not do this alone, tell somebody what is going on. This is you standing up to it.  

Sometimes to avoid bad shit from happening to you, keep your distance from where you know it’s happening.

Bullies can be easy to spot. If you are aware that someone is a known bully or you just know a bully when you see one, Don’t give it the energy it needs to survive. Don’t laugh with them or be around to see them playing on someone else. Because bullying is also a social comfort. A bully is usually comfortable around a crowd, trying to be the center of attention.

Keep the strength to love yourself.

Much Love