This time of year everybody is talking or hearing about goals. This is to be expected and I get it. A new year is a chance to reflect on where we are and want to be in life. It is normal to make these (collapse in 30 days) lists of things we will start doing in our lives. But no need to be normal. Be great.
Success really does start small. So instead of making huge promises to ourselves and others try taking a step back at the beginning of this New Year to have gratitude, listen to our heartbeats, and find our focus. I often start the year this way and this is how it works…
Have Gratitude– Act like you care. Show some respect for today and everyday. Let’s be thankful for life. A new day/new year is gracefully granted to us on purpose, by no mistake. EVERY day we are here for a good reason. Please, show the world why you are here.
Listen To Our Heartbeat– Know what keeps you going and what works for you. Whether it be family, a relationship, your education, work, fitness, a natural talent (and spiritual), or whatever else… Continue to flow in the good things you already started that mean the most to you.
Find Our Focus– Look around you then look within you. If you see anything you can change, do it! Be honest with yourself. Two-things happen if you do this. First of all, you will have something to do all the time, this whole year. Secondly, you will be discovering and rediscovering your life on a regular.
Personally, I can’t wait to keep Focus Fridayz poppin’.
–HAPPY SOFLY New Year !
Feel free to share what you think or how you start your new year.
-Much Love
This time of year everybody is talking or hearing about goals. This is to be expected and I get it. A new year is a chance to reflect on where we are and want to be in life. It is normal to make these (collapse in 30 days) lists of things we will start doing in our lives. But no need to be normal. Be great.
Success really does start small. So instead of making huge promises to ourselves and others try taking a step back at the beginning of this New Year to have gratitude, listen to our heartbeats, and find our focus. I often start the year this way and this is how it works…
Have Gratitude– Act like you care. Show some respect for today and everyday. Let’s be thankful for life. A new day/new year is gracefully granted to us on purpose, by no mistake. EVERY day we are here for a good reason. Please, show the world why you are here.
Listen To Our Heartbeat– Know what keeps you going and what works for you. Whether it be family, a relationship, your education, work, fitness, a natural talent (and spiritual), or whatever else… Continue to flow in the good things you already started that mean the most to you.
Find Our Focus– Look around you then look within you. If you see anything you can change, do it! Be honest with yourself. Two-things happen if you do this. First of all, you will have something to do all the time, this whole year. Secondly, you will be discovering and rediscovering your life on a regular.
Personally, I can’t wait to keep Focus Fridayz poppin’.
–HAPPY SOFLY New Year !
Feel free to share what you think or how you start your new year.
-Much Love
Honestly I have been looking for some new inspiration in my life. Something motivating, something to look forward to. While I am naturally self-motivated, right now my tank is on E and I need to be poured into. So I’m going on this SOFLY journey! I love children and have always worked with and for them in many capacities. Anyone who has a passion for and acts on uplifting our youth is a world changer. When your biggest investment starts with simply listening to them, holding a safe space for them where they are offered an invitation to freely express themselves and then served honest guidance for dessert, they finally find a place to just be. Building this structure with teens is vital. When you enter their world and ask for permission to dine at their table, bravely partaking in their experiences from the inside out, you connect in a way with them that breaks down barriers and nurtures new relationships that are bound to be fascinating in so many ways. Queen Miracle, I would like to thank you for following your dreams and bringing this blog to life. It may sound a little weird at first to thank someone for doing what they have always wanted to do, but think about it ; when you are operating in your passion, your reach extends far beyond your immediate surroundings. The trickle down effect, whether or not it was your intention, flows out to the entire universe one soul at a time. The small steps that you spoke about have a giant impact. This is some good stuff and what you are doing is simply necessary. I’m looking forward to reading and seeing more. Most of all I’m looking forward to getting to know your SOFLY youth.
-Queen•Warrior• Goddess Shareé
Thank you Queen??
Shareé your finger is right on the pulse. Thank you, Queen, for your depth. Thanks for sharing a piece of your self. Your support is a part of my strength.
Proud of you, my Miracle??
My Doc, I’m so grateful to have your presence here. Your pride for the work I’m doing means everything to me. ?
I love this Miracle! I will definitely subscribe. I am totally looking to connect and support other beautiful, creative, professional African American women in 2k19.
This definitely inspired me more. Thanks for the encouraging note and looking forward to more.
Thanks for the love Desiree! Your subscription and taking the time to connect with SOFLY has given me a sweet boost. Please continue to engage with us here and let us know how we’re doing.
Happy you were inspired. I’m inspired too.
I appreciate your support of other women. You rock.
Very inspirational!
Thank you Pam! That’s awesome coming from you. Appreciate your time here.
Yoo BLOOD, this is Amazing… I absolutely Love this!!!!
You always support the important things I do, especially my SOFLY passion. Thank you for that from all of my heart. Family is where love starts.
This is simply marvelous. Since I don’t make resolutions anymore please allow me to steal/share yours. I can’t wait to see what you continue to do and flourish in. I love you so much and always here. #SoFly #FocusFridayz
Thanks D!! You have been here from the beginning. You have brought marvelous moments and thoughts to our youth. Thank you always!
Please do steal/share these SOFLY goals. Lol. Goals that are more about mindfulness than particular resolutions. Much love
Get up every morning ,starting your day Positive
Thinking ,lead to positive doing ,Then words come out ,positive saying ,think before speak ,How is this conversation going to leave us ,you hold the key ,you unlock the door to a healthy, full filing, feel good ending ,you have the Power Yes you do ! You can turn any bad situation to a great situation with the word you say . Thanks Be Kind it doesn’t cost anything !!!!
Thanks for sharing your New Year goals, Carolyn. I especially admire your mention of how our conversations will leave us or lead us somewhere. Nice note to keep in mind. Stay positive!
So good!! Thanks Miracle!!
Thank you Christina!! It’s all good that you shared your time with us.
Tonight was my first Focus Friday. I really love that this was a dope, inspirational, and down to earth talk with no judgement . I appreciate Khalil and Miracle for letting me come and get to feel the focus of God in the center of the room. The vibes given here and on this website is just more than trying to help make a difference but to show where it all starts and thats within all of us . Tonight was very fun and im definitely coming to the next one.❤️ #SoFly #12:30
You are my spiritual friend Love ya❤️❤️❤️
Faith, Faith, Faith, thank you for this beautiful message. Your words of expressions are giving me life right now. I appreciate YOU. And are you sure this was your 1st time!? ? It feels as if you have been here all along. ? That’s what good vibes will do. I love the focus of God that you felt. And I’m already loving your perspective. The difference does start within all of us. #Happy to have you. #12:30
I love everything about this, I’m so grateful and blessed that God has blessed me to meet so many amazing people and to be apart of my family. I know this blog will go far because I can feel it. #FocusFridayz
Oh wow Jr.! So you feel it. That is SOFLY. Thank you champion. I definitely believe this blog will go far because you’re one of the youth it’s following and you are going places. And I wouldn’t miss it. #Blessed indeed. Fz ❤️
I appreciate the development of this spiritual platform that my soul is apart of this newborn child.Touching souls is the reason I go work everyday and I see the results in the classrooms I enter.4 year olds have love in the minds and they express their emotions through the power of voice.Voice is a gift given from God To Speak Holy Talk and to Feed a positive energy source.The prophecy that someone speaks will effect the energy around their days of living or existing depending on the option they choose.Just because love has 4 letters doesn’t limit you to 4 blessings.Do the spiritual yoga and shop for your spiritual closet because your soul need to be fed something.If you keep drinking water you will turn into water. HEART❤️SOUL??MIND?STRENGTH??#DRIPPINHOLYWATER #WATEROVEREVERYTHING
Thank you Baby Boy Star! It sounds like you’re experiencing greatness in your life. It’s a beautiful thing to know that a young adult chooses to go into classrooms with 4-year-olds to support them with good energy. You’re leaving a powerful mark. #LOVEOVEREVERYTHING ❤️#12:30
I love you so much❤️❤️❤️